What men prefer in sex?

What men prefer in sex?

It is considered that men are more reserved in sexual matters than women. However such opinion primarily relates to women. But to get a correct answer for this question we have to consider several poll data. So let’s check what men want and dream of.

Actually, there are no secrets at all. Men quite often tell about their wishes but the way they do it doesn’t really differ from the one women use thus veiling their preferences in quite intricate ways. For women, such men’s tricks make no problem. But it often happens that is more convenient to remain in the dark. And then all power of the make temperament appears on the Internet websites. Checking them will help us to make several conclusions.

Leading places

According to virtual polls, most parts of men get aroused with latex underwear, striptease, and slow petting, and women moan and exclamations during sex. This is quite a normal set for an average man, nothing extraordinary, super extravagant, or extreme. And the main point is that their wishes quite correspond to the women’s ones, well perhaps except for latex underwear. Such “luxury” doesn’t appear in each women’s wardrobe. But that is ok. White lace panties appear to be quite a good arousal standing behind only in a few points from latex gloss.

As for striptease – it is nothing new here; it is quite demanded in numerous strip clubs appearing in many cities and towns of our country. And in case men so like to watch the way we undress then why don’t provide them such an opportunity? Only we have to learn it in the right way.

Men also deny an old myth about male egoism and negligence. They say it is preferable for them to get personal satisfaction and besides the sooner the better. Nothing of the kind! It appears that men also like to have a correct prelude of the love and are ready to spare over 30 minutes for it. All this time they prefer to undress the woman kissing and petting her thus bringing her slowly to ecstasy.

It turned out to be that there are not so many lovers of fast sex – only about 7%. The only thing remaining unclear is why there are so many women’s complaints that don’t really correspond to the number of the male assurances concerning their “tenderness”.

The main parameter of female sexuality men considers to be “moans of passion”. They think that decibel power is evidence of male skills. And the “silent valor” is not the right idea at all. It is preferable for a man to listen to various obscenities than experience complete silence from women. Certain experts even suppose that every woman expresses her ecstasy in her own way so there are no two similar “moans”.

Middle places

This section included kisses, porn films, positions (when a woman is at the top or at the side), and, please attention! – oral sex. The matter is that men don’t pay enough attention to kisses is quite known for us, women. Men on their hands cannot understand our attachment to this pleasure type. The matter is that kisses are often more important than sexual intercourse for many women but when it comes to men they consider kisses to be nothing at all. Well, they are ready to show their skills in kissing beloved women just to humor our attachment but at the same time, they ask not to exclude intercourse at all.

Everyone has their own preferences in a variety of sexual positions. Puritanical respectability of the “classic missionary position” is quite far from the first place. Men like the rear-penetration position (30%). The cowgirl position isn’t far from it. It is also quite good when all this stuff will be lightened with candles or night-light. Sex in total darkness as well as in a completely illuminated room is not adopted at all.

67% against 33% chose traditional sexual intercourse instead of oral sex but mentioned that oral petting is ought to take place.


The list finishes with the great shots of erotic movies and talks about sexual intercourse, day sex, and the excessive shyness of women.

There is no secret for movie business bigwigs that most part of men doesn’t stand tearful-sweet erotic stories. They do not conceal that candy movie fairy-tales with a few sex scenes are intended only for women. And there is a separate industry of porn cinematography for men. However, there are many fans of this genre among women as well.

The female ability to spoil the pleasure with the strange talks during sex brings men into a frenzy. Well indeed, only women may inform their partner at the ecstasy moment that tomorrow her mom (the one he has difficult relations with) will come to visit them or that the money saved for a new car spend on her new shoes. Actually, men are not against having a talk and listening to us but only after sex.

Sexologists consider that the best time for sex is 3-4 o’clock p.m. However it is quite complicated to induce sex not only for women but for men as well during this period. Evening sex takes the leading position and goes ahead with 60% of the votes, morning sex gets only 30% and the number of those willing to have sex within a day is too few. Furthermore, most part of normal people is occupied with their job at this time so it is quite complicated technically to make a reality of the sexologists’ recommendations.

Men are ready to satisfy women’s wishes but they need to understand what we want. Considering our shyness they agree to get at least hints but not too complicated ones. We only have to take his hand and put it in the right place and then he will understand on his own what he has to do. The shyness of the women is acceptable for only 3% of those taking part in the poll they think that they know how to please women without any hints at all.

In the world of fantasy

It is also useful to know what our men dream of and what their sexual fantasies wander about. About threesome (64%)! The only thing that varies here is the third person. Some want it to be his beloved woman friend the others – strip-bar dancer or casual acquaintance. 26% dream of at least once being tied (chained with handcuffs) and thus remain in the will of the woman fantasy. A bit less number of men want to tie their girlfriend. And almost all (85%) want to hear once some perfect in its obscenity offer to have sex from a woman.

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