How to have sex and make her orgasm!

How to have sex and make her orgasm!

Women’s orgasm is a big mystery for men! While the statistics reveal that 90% of men reach orgasm well as compared to just 65% in women. The surveys also reveal that 85% of the men exclaim of their partners have reached an orgasm. This makes us jump to just one conclusion – most women are faking it!

Women have a tough time reaching orgasm as compared to men. There isn’t just the sensation or the view guiding them to good sexual intercourse. For a woman, what matters is the complete shutdown of the brain activities to reach an amazing orgasm. It is when they can leave behind the ringing of the phone, the crying of the baby, or the knock on the door that an orgasm is on its way! And it can happen only when the man knows what works for his partner and hits just the right spots at the right time.

Of course, every woman is different. Men are bound to have trouble with how to have sex. While some moves would completely swipe a woman off her feet, the same would make another woman cringe. However, there are some real ways in which you can expect to reach the finish line and make her cum easily.

Getting her aroused is an art!

To light that fire in a woman is an important part of indulging in sex. It is not just the feeling of sensuousness but intense desire in the eyes of men that turn a woman on. And in this race, it is important to make her feel safe, comfortable, and of course sexy! Tap into the F-word to start with! We mean Foreplay! If you can, then touch corners of her neck, give her a little massage on the waist or feel her lips through your fingers and you will see how magically it turns her on!

Jog on your memory and remind yourself of the 7 erogenous zones of women as explained by Monica Geller from F.R.I.E.N.D.S. “GO for a 1,2,1,2,3,3,5,4,3,2,2, a..2,4,6,2,4,6,4,2,2,4,7,5,7,6,7,7,7, .. finish!” THEY ARE FOR REAL!

Unwind her stress and make her relax in your company. And it is more important to be done than just said. Tease her with your words and play with her hair, her fingertips, or just ask her how she likes to indulge in sex. Chances are that if she is interested in you she would support the flow too.

P.S. Consent is the key! Even if you are in a relationship, between a position, deep into the act, or just approaching a woman for the first time – make sure you have her consent.

Get to know her clitoris

Women have a tough time reaching the optimal prime with just penetrative sex. For them, it is important to feel sensuous and have some stimulation in the clitoris. It’s a wonder how the clitoris has remained a silent friend for women and ignored by men largely. If studies are to be believed, it is only 18% of women who are able to reach an orgasm with just penetrative sex.

Thanks to the porn industry that there are streams of kinky sex ideas been rolled out for people to try. And a majority of the videos feature women stimulating their clitoris. So wake up! Learn techniques to stimulate her clitoris gently to help her feel the pleasure and bring about a mind-blowing orgasm.

For people who don’t know, clitoris is a pea sized structure on the top of a woman’s Vulva. It is one of the most erogenous zones for women sexual stimulation.

Be it any position – you can choose to either use the knuckles of your fingers or the lower rib part of your body to just thrust a little closer and make her feel the difference. Use the Vulcan V finger technique for it or just rub your thumb on the clitoris during missionary position. A clitoral stimulation heightens the sexual pleasure in women and helps them get the Big-O easily.

Learn what she likes and take the lead!

Every woman is different! And it is a lot more complicated beneath the sheets. You need to really know what excites her to be able to make her cum. While clitoral stimulation can be your Jack card, getting to know her down below brings out her stages of arousal and what she enjoys the most. So don’t shy away from going down on a woman. Indulge in oral sex and let her take the lead.

Give her a good stimulation with your tongue, lips, and a little chin to rub. She will mostly guide you on what feels good and whatnot. Once you know what works for her, you can either stick to the oral sex or shift for a quick orgasm with penetrative sex right at the G-spot. Stay a little shallow and focus on G-spot for a quick charge on sexual pleasure.

Note: G-Spot is the most erogenous spot inside the Vagina to bring about a quick orgasm. It is just a couple of inches inside the vagina. A thrust here can be just the right bang for you to win an orgasm!

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